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What Tony Soprano Can Teach Us About Therapy
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

What Tony Soprano Can Teach Us About Therapy

Most of us aren’t mob bosses, but many of us understand what it’s like to appear capable on the outside while struggling underneath. Here’s what Tony Soprano can teach us about therapy, vulnerability, and a different kind of courage.

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A Warm Handoff: Transitioning to a New Therapist
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

A Warm Handoff: Transitioning to a New Therapist

Whether you’ve worked with your therapist for three sessions or three years, learning they are leaving can be difficult to process. Here are a few ways to navigate the change, grieve the relationship, and find the right next fit.

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The Importance of Ending Therapy Well
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

The Importance of Ending Therapy Well

Growth does not end when therapy does. Explore how reflection, preparation, and honest conversation can help make the conclusion of therapy a meaningful transition rather than simply a goodbye.

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The Elder Wand: What Are We Really Chasing?
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

The Elder Wand: What Are We Really Chasing?

What can the Elder Wand teach us about ambition, power, and the desire to feel like we are finally enough? This post explores what may lie beneath our pursuit of success—and why achievement can offer us more power, but not always the security or peace we are truly seeking.

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R.A.I.N.: A Mindful Approach to Difficult Emotions
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

R.A.I.N.: A Mindful Approach to Difficult Emotions

When difficult emotions show up, it can be hard to know what to do with them. The R.A.I.N. mindfulness practice offers four simple steps for slowing down, noticing what’s present, and responding to yourself with greater compassion.

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Helping Kids Slow Down When Life Speeds Up
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Helping Kids Slow Down When Life Speeds Up

Back-to-school season can bring stress, busy schedules, and big emotions for kids and parents alike. This post explores a few simple ways families can slow down, connect, and practice regulation together.

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What Does Regulation Actually Feel Like?
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

What Does Regulation Actually Feel Like?

You don't have to feel calm all the time to have a healthy nervous system. Regulation isn't about eliminating anxiety, sadness, or stress—it's about developing the flexibility to move through those emotions without staying stuck. The post explores what regulation really feels like.

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Invisible Grief: Life Not Going as You Expected
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Invisible Grief: Life Not Going as You Expected

Sometimes we don't just grieve people—we grieve the life we thought we'd have. Whether it's the career, relationship, family, or future you imagined, this post explores the invisible grief that can come when life doesn't unfold the way you expected.

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Harry Potter and the Pressure to Always Be Strong
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Harry Potter and the Pressure to Always Be Strong

The Sorting Hat may have placed Harry in Gryffindor, but therapy notices something else. Beneath the bravery is a child who learned to survive by staying alert, taking responsibility, and never letting himself fall apart. What can Gryffindor teach us about resilience—and what can therapy teach us about finally putting down the sword?

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Niceness Isn't the Same as Kindness
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Niceness Isn't the Same as Kindness

We've been told to be nice our whole lives. But niceness can sometimes come at the expense of our own needs, boundaries, and authenticity. What if the healthier goal isn't being nice—but being kind? Read more about the difference and why it matters.

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Luna Lovegood and the Fear of Being Different
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Luna Lovegood and the Fear of Being Different

What if we looked at Luna Lovegood through the eyes of a therapist? Instead of asking why she was so different, we might ask how she stayed so authentic despite grief, rejection, and misunderstanding. Her story has more to teach us than you might think.

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