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Using Music to Cope: How Sound Can Soothe the Mind
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Using Music to Cope: How Sound Can Soothe the Mind

Music is more than background noise — it’s a powerful emotional regulator. This piece explores how intentional listening, curated playlists, and simple rhythm-based practices can help ease anxiety, support grounding, and reconnect you with yourself. Whether you're overwhelmed, stuck, or needing comfort, music can be a steady companion in your coping toolkit.

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When the Body Speaks: Understanding the Physical Language of Emotions
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

When the Body Speaks: Understanding the Physical Language of Emotions

Our bodies often understand our emotions before our minds do. This piece explores how physical sensations — tightness, stomach drops, racing heart, fatigue — are not overreactions but meaningful signals from the nervous system. By learning to listen to these cues with curiosity rather than judgment, we can better understand our emotional needs, regulate more effectively, and respond to ourselves with compassion.

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How to Maintain Sobriety During the Holidays
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

How to Maintain Sobriety During the Holidays

The holidays can be joyful, but they can also challenge even the strongest recovery. This post offers practical guidance on setting boundaries, building support, and navigating gatherings with confidence so you can protect your sobriety during a demanding season. You deserve to feel safe, grounded, and empowered every step of the way.

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The Quiet Grief of Motherhood: When Growing Up Feels Like Goodbye
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

The Quiet Grief of Motherhood: When Growing Up Feels Like Goodbye

Motherhood is often described as a journey of milestones, but rarely do we name the quiet goodbyes woven into each one. This reflection explores the tender grief many mothers feel as their children grow — not from crisis or loss, but from love. If you’ve ever felt both joy and sorrow as your child stepped into a new stage, this piece is for you.

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Caring for the Caregiver: The Importance of Self-Care
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Caring for the Caregiver: The Importance of Self-Care

November and December reminds us to honor the caregivers in our lives — the ones quietly holding so much together. This month is an invitation to pause, acknowledge the weight you carry, and remember that your well-being matters too. Small moments of rest, connection, and support aren’t luxuries; they’re what allow you to keep showing up with the same compassion you offer everyone else. You deserve care, just as much as the people you support.

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Polyvagal Breathing: A Nervous System Regulation Technique
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Polyvagal Breathing: A Nervous System Regulation Technique

Rooted in the science of Polyvagal Theory, polyvagal breathing is a simple, evidence-based way to calm the body and regulate emotions. This post explains how the nervous system responds to stress, why breath is such a powerful tool for signaling safety, and offers an easy step-by-step breathing practice you can start using today.

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When Clutter Becomes Chaos: Understanding Hoarding Disorder
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

When Clutter Becomes Chaos: Understanding Hoarding Disorder

Hoarding isn’t about clutter, it’s about emotional pain, fear, and the need for safety and control. This post unpacks the psychology behind hoarding disorder and how therapy can help you rebuild a sense of calm, clarity, and confidence — one small step at a time.

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Staying Curious During the Holidays
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Staying Curious During the Holidays

The holidays can bring both joy and tension — especially when conversations get tricky. This post explores how curiosity can help you navigate tough moments with more calm, empathy, and connection. Learn how to pause, ask questions, and stay grounded when family dynamics heat up.

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Check In With Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Check In With Yourself Before You Wreck Yourself

We often rush through our days without pausing to ask how we’re really doing, until our body or emotions force us to notice. This post explores why regular self check-ins matter, how to recognize what you’re feeling, and simple ways to respond with care before stress or overwhelm takes the wheel.

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Attachment Styles and Why They Matter in Relationships
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Attachment Styles and Why They Matter in Relationships

The way we connect in relationships isn’t random, it often traces back to our earliest bonds with caregivers. Understanding your own style can bring clarity to repeating patterns, reduce frustration, and open the door to healthier, more secure connections. The good news? Attachment styles aren’t set in stone — with awareness and support, change is possible.

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Perfectionism: What It Is, How It Impacts Mental Health, and Ways to Manage It 
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Perfectionism: What It Is, How It Impacts Mental Health, and Ways to Manage It 

Perfectionism can look like motivation on the surface—but underneath, it often hides anxiety, shame, and self-criticism. This post unpacks the difference between healthy striving and harmful perfectionism, explores its impact on mental health, and offers practical, evidence-based tools to loosen its grip through self-compassion and flexibility.

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Living with BPD: Finding Understanding and Balance
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Living with BPD: Finding Understanding and Balance

Relationships touched by Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be deeply challenging — but also full of potential for healing. Drawing from Stop Walking on Eggshells by Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger, this post explores how understanding, empathy, and clear boundaries can bring stability and compassion to relationships affected by BPD — while reminding both partners that self-care matters, too.

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Death, Grief, and Culture: Honoring the Different Languages of Loss
Ashlee Owens Ashlee Owens

Death, Grief, and Culture: Honoring the Different Languages of Loss

Grief is universal, but how we express it is shaped by culture, ritual, and community. This post explores how different traditions around the world honor loss, why understanding these differences matters, and how culturally informed grief practices can bring comfort, meaning, and connection.

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Finding Meaning: An Introduction to Logotherapy
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Finding Meaning: An Introduction to Logotherapy

When life feels uncertain or painful, meaning can be what carries us through. This post introduces Viktor Frankl’s logotherapy — a framework built on the belief that our greatest human drive is to find purpose, even in suffering. Learn how meaning-making, choice, and perspective can transform hardship into hope and guide everyday resilience.

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Sleep Hygiene for Mental Health: Why Your Bedtime Routine Matters
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Sleep Hygiene for Mental Health: Why Your Bedtime Routine Matters

Good sleep is more than just hours on a clock — it’s a foundation for mental health. This post breaks down the essentials of sleep hygiene, from setting a consistent schedule to creating a calming bedtime routine. Learn how small changes to your habits and environment can lead to more restorative rest and a clearer, calmer mind.

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Welcoming Every Feeling: Mental Health Lessons from Rumi’s The Guest House
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Welcoming Every Feeling: Mental Health Lessons from Rumi’s The Guest House

Inspired by Rumi’s The Guest House, this post explores what it means to welcome every emotion — joy, sorrow, shame, and all — as temporary visitors. Through mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), we learn to notice thoughts and feelings without letting them define us, becoming steady, compassionate hosts to our inner world.

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