How Connection, Organization, and Collective Action Support Mental Health

It’s easy to feel like you’re supposed to handle everything on your own. Our culture often celebrates independence- being self-sufficient, productive, and resilient no matter what. But while autonomy has its strengths, an overemphasis on individualism can quietly harm our mental health.

In reality, we’re wired for connection. When that connection breaks down — whether through isolation, burnout, or social disconnection — our emotional well-being suffers. Research consistently shows that loneliness increases the risk of depression, anxiety, and even physical illness. The U.S. Surgeon General has called it a “public health epidemic,” noting that its impact on health is comparable to smoking fifteen cigarettes a day.

But isolation doesn’t just happen by choice. Many people today are navigating economic insecurity, rising living costs, and overwhelming work demands. These systemic pressures make it harder to rest, connect, or even meet basic needs. Over time, we may start to see our struggles as personal failures instead of natural responses to a stressful, disconnected world.

From a clinical perspective, isolation keeps our bodies in a state of survival. Chronic stress elevates cortisol, disrupts sleep, and leaves us feeling fatigued, unfocused, and numb. When we’re disconnected, our nervous systems lose the regulating power that comes from being in safe, supportive relationships.

In therapy, we often see that healing accelerates when people begin to rebuild meaningful connections- not just with individuals, but with community. Humans thrive when we feel like part of something larger than ourselves.

One of the most powerful antidotes to isolation is collective actionjoining with others to work toward a shared goal. Whether it’s volunteering, participating in a community garden, joining a mutual aid group, or advocating for social change, engaging with others in purposeful ways strengthens both individual and collective resilience.

Studies in community and social psychology show that participation in collective efforts increases a sense of belonging, agency, and meaning — all key protective factors for mental health. Working alongside others can also calm the nervous system. Shared activity boosts dopamine and oxytocin (the “connection and motivation” chemicals) while reducing stress hormones.

In other words, connection through action doesn’t just change the world around us — it changes what’s happening inside us, too.

“Self-care” has become a buzzword in recent years- and practices like rest, therapy, and mindfulness truly matter. But it’s hard to self-care your way out of economic precarity, social injustice, or a lack of community support. That’s why collective care is equally vital.

Collective care asks: How can we care for ourselves by caring for each other? 

It might look like:

  • Volunteering or organizing in your neighborhood

  • Joining a local support or advocacy group

  • Sharing skills, time, or resources

  • Simply showing up with empathy and presence

These acts help restore our sense of belonging and remind us that healing is not a solo project — it’s something we co-create.

When we acknowledge how systemic, economic, and cultural forces shape our mental health, we move away from self-blame and toward self-compassion. We begin to understand that while we can’t control every condition we live under, we can choose connection.

Getting involved in something larger than yourself — even in small ways — can be deeply healing. It helps reawaken hope, agency, and a sense of shared humanity.

You don’t have to do it perfectly. You just have to start somewhere — one conversation, one act of care, one step toward belonging.

Because healing doesn’t happen in isolation.

It happens together.

Christina Matiuk, MSW, SWLC

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